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Parents + Daughters

The relationship between queer kids and their parents is a well trodden story in queer media, as many of the "mainstream" queer media (Love, Simon in particular) focus on a child coming out to their parents, accepting or not. In contrast, while coming out may be important in some of these lesbian films (Kissing Jessica Stein, Pariah, Love My Life) there are also films where children are already out (Hearts Beat Loud, Shiva Baby, and Everything, Everywhere, All at Once), and films where a daughter is the one learning about with their mother's queerness (Rara, The Kids are All Right, Snapshots). This category shows the myriad of of ways that queerness affects the already complicated relationship between parents and children. 

Final Thoughts: Mothers + Daughters

Although these films track a wide variety of parent and daughter relationships, the relationships between mothers and queer daughters is especially important to highlight. In Shiva Baby, Kissing Jessica Stein, Saving Face, and Everything, Everywhere, All At Once, some of the most important and touching scenes come from moments of understanding between mother and daughter. Motherhood is a common theme being explored in films today (Lost Daughter, Parallel Mothers, The Worst Person in the World were all Oscar nominated films in 2021 exploring the topic) and these lesbian films highlight how queerness can particularly impact and disrupt this relationship dynamic.  

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